One woman’s memoir of opening up her marriage, including the struggles, excitements, and all the mistakes and learnings along the way.

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The modern guide to exploring Polyamory! Polywise provides frameworks to shift from monogamy to nonmonogamy and the tools to navigate big ENM milestones.

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A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love. The main book we used to open our relationship 10+ years ago.

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Drawing from polyvagal and attachment theories, Cultivating Connection is written with practical application in mind and exercises to help you and your partners practice new skills together.

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A Guide To Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships. An overview of all forms of open relationships, drawing from hundreds of interviews.

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Although not directly about open relationships, this book offers a new take on intimacy and the balance between desire/distance and intimacy/comfort.

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This book is all about affairs–why they happen and the many forms they take. Buy on Amazon here.

A handbook to healthy nonmonogamous relationships made of compelling personal stories, anecdotes from clients, and practical exercises.

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A book that applies attachment theory to emotions, especially jealousy, in consensual nonmonogamy.

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A comprehensive guide to polyamory, open relationships, and other forms of alternative love.

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A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships.

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